Asking Eric: Mom was never around for me growing up. Must I be there for her as she ages?

An adult grapples with the emotional burden of caring for a mother who was missing throughout childhood. Faced with this history, the writer questions whether to offer support now that the parent is aging.

My 4-Year-Old Pushes Me Until I Do Something I Regret. Every Single Time.

Parenting a four-year-old who pushes boundaries can be a daily challenge. In this adaptation, a parent grapples with regret after tense moments and looks to establish firmer limits and compassion.

My 4-Year-Old Pushes Me Until I Do Something I Regret. Every Single Time.

Dear Abby: Boss’s new fiance certainly has a way with words

Two readers wrote in to “Dear Abby,” detailing one boss’s intrusive fiancé and one looming pregnancy for a 40-year-old mother. Both stories highlight the deep anxieties caused by unclear boundaries, unwanted conflict, and the urgent need for open, honest communication.

Asking Eric: Son’s family lives in squalor and won’t make changes

What happens when a mother’s well-intentioned offer to improve her son’s living conditions is met with firm resistance? This story explores how privacy, family dynamics, and concern collide in one household.

Dear Abby: My sister’s behavior makes family gatherings unbearable

A recent Dear Abby column highlights a dilemma many families face: how to handle a disruptive sibling while preserving long-held family ties. One reader’s wish to keep the peace underscores the complex responsibilities that often accompany familial relationships.

Margo: Is being affectionate with my son a good thing?

In her nightly bubble bath, sipping ginger tea and indulging in a light romance novel, a mother wonders if her displays of affection might affect her son’s well-being. This introspective moment raises universal questions of parental boundaries and warmth.

I Did Some Good “Parenting” While Babysitting My Nephew. My Sister Is Furious.

When a routine babysitting job turns into a heated debate over child-rearing, boundaries, and respect, families can be left reeling. This piece explores how one aunt stands by her disciplinary choice, despite her sister’s anger and claims of overstepping.

I Did Some Good “Parenting” While Babysitting My Nephew. My Sister Is Furious.

Asking Eric: Friend will not stop giving unsolicited advice

A longtime friend keeps insisting on giving advice—unasked and unwelcome. Now, frustration is building to the point that the friendship itself may be in jeopardy.

Asking Eric: A strange man gave me an inappropriate hug

A letter writer found themselves on the receiving end of an unwanted hug from a stranger and turned to R. Eric Thomas for advice. The columnist addresses the challenges of maintaining politeness while setting firm personal boundaries.

Why You’re Considered Attractive

In an offbeat yet cautionary piece, readers are warned about the unsettling issue of being considered attractive while in the privacy of their bathroom. The article humorously addresses the importance of protecting your personal space, even if it means plastering over a peephole.

Why You’re Considered Attractive