A concerned wife turns to “Dear Annie” for guidance about her husband’s all-consuming metal detecting pastime. She’s worried that weekends—and even vacation time—are slipping away in the pursuit of buried treasure. Now, she wonders if it’s fair to ask him to rein in his beloved hobby.

Planning a romantic getaway can be surprisingly tricky when one person envisions candlelit dinners on the beach and the other fears unwanted insect encounters. This article dives into how couples can balance their dream vacation with reality—and maybe share a laugh along the way.