A concerned wife asked Dear Abby about her husband’s choice to share a camper bed with a 21-year-old family friend. The dilemma resurfaced when he did it again, leaving her wondering if such behavior crosses marital boundaries.

A recent Dear Abby letter details one man’s unconventional living situation with his ex-wife, Debbie, and current girlfriend, Joanna. While he insists they mostly get along, he points to Debbie’s attitude toward Joanna as the single biggest source of tension in their home.