A devoted host is feeling overlooked when relatives never invite them in return. R. Eric Thomas, in his “Asking Eric” column, addresses the emotional toll and explores the tensions of unbalanced family hospitality.

When you pour thought into a present, it can be disheartening to get a seemingly tossed-together gift in return. This Dear Abby column examines whether it’s worth continuing the exchange when that thoughtfulness doesn’t feel reciprocated.