In an era many recall with nostalgia, children were expected to be respectful toward their elders—sometimes at the expense of healthy self-esteem. While parents hoped to instill manners, their methods often taught subservience, leaving lasting psychological effects on children.

A perplexed reader wrote to “Dear Annie” hoping to find a compassionate yet firm approach to manage a sister’s growing dependence. Concerned about maintaining harmony, they wrestle with how to draw clear lines without damaging their important sibling relationship.

Unresolved childhood experiences may be influencing your adult relationships in ways you might not realize. Experts explain how nurturing your inner child can help overcome insecurity, fear of abandonment, and the need for constant validation, leading to healthier connections.