Miss Manners: Hostile hostel worker yelled at me for not cleaning my room well enough

A favored hostel turned unexpectedly hostile when a staff member lashed out at a guest for subpar room cleaning. This confrontational encounter has left the guest reconsidering what was once a longtime favorite lodging spot.

Miss Manners: Should I have said something when I noticed a stranger’s zipper was down?

Observing a stranger’s unzipped pants can lead to an uncomfortable dilemma: are you helping or overstepping by saying something? This question spotlights a moment that causes many of us to hesitate, wondering if courtesy should override our fear of embarrassment.

ASKING ERIC: Couple disagrees on whether to charge houseguests

A couple grapples with whether to charge houseguests for their stay, questioning the limits of hospitality. Meanwhile, another reader wonders if leftover food from neighboring tables in a restaurant is fair game. Advice columnist Eric Thomas addresses these daily dilemmas with clear-eyed practicality.

ASKING ERIC: Couple disagrees on whether to charge houseguests

Miss Manners: Getting ghosted, then guilted, gets galling – Wed, 07 Jan 2026 PST

A recent Miss Manners column poses a question about responsibility for so-called “ghosting” when there may be no communication to begin with. The brief query underscores how modern social norms and online etiquette can become muddled, leaving friends unsure of who owes whom a reply.

Miss Manners: Getting ghosted, then guilted, gets galling – Wed, 07 Jan 2026 PST

Miss Manners: I’m 56. What do I call the woman I’m dating?

A 56-year-old reader recently turned to Miss Manners for help in naming his romantic partner. Unsure of the right term—be it “special person,” “girlfriend,” or otherwise—he sought clarity on how best to make a proper introduction.

Miss Manners: My wife’s excessive use of “very” is driving me crazy

A husband grows exasperated by his wife’s habitual use of “very,” prompting him to seek guidance in Miss Manners’ column. Etiquette expert Judith Martin weighs in on how minor language quirks can drive a wedge between spouses.

Miss Manners: I’m terrified my guests will shatter my precious glassware

A nervous host seeks Miss Manners’ guidance on showcasing her prized vintage crystal at lively gatherings. Advice columnist Judith Martin offers thoughtful tips on maintaining both peace of mind and a gracious atmosphere.

Miss Manners: Tight budgets can make it hard to make all dating relationships equal

Balancing dating expenses can be challenging when funds are tight. In a recent column, Miss Manners explores how to reciprocate a date when hosting at home isn’t an option, offering thoughtful and budget-friendly suggestions.

Dear Abby: Gift-giving season means refresher in thanking people

A short “Dear Abby” note reveals that forgetting to thank people for gifts remains a top complaint. As the gift-giving season approaches, this article underscores why a simple expression of gratitude holds so much value.

Dear Abby: Gift-giving season means refresher in thanking people

Miss Manners: Is it rude to decline an invitation I’m not interested in?

Miss Manners, or Judith Martin, addresses whether it is rude to say “no” to an invitation you simply do not want to accept. She offers guidance on maintaining courtesy and honesty without damaging social ties.