A daughter faces a difficult dilemma as her parents refuse all offers to manage their mounting clutter. Her mother frequently overbuys and never sorts through what she already owns, leaving the family wondering who will be left to clean up in the future.

A parent recently shared a photo of their son online, only to learn he was upset by the post. Now, the parent is questioning whether they should have interpreted “we’re not into social media” more carefully. R. Eric Thomas’s advice column offers insight into navigating such dilemmas.