Miss Manners: Is there a proper moment to attach an anniversary band?

A curious husband turns to Miss Manners for advice on when to add an anniversary band to his wife’s wedding ring. Though the full column remains behind a paywall, the question stirs interest in how best to celebrate such milestones with proper etiquette.

Miss Manners: Looking for the secret to finding the ultimate insult? Here you go

In a culture where quick comebacks and scathing remarks seem common, “Miss Manners” reminds us that trading insults accomplishes little. Instead, she advises tact and politeness as stronger, more constructive options.

Miss Manners: Must I participate in standing ovations, even if the performance was ‘meh’?

In a world where standing ovations seem practically mandatory, one reader questions the etiquette behind rising to applaud a performance that fails to impress. As social pressures grow, the line between genuine appreciation and polite compliance becomes ever more blurred.

Miss Manners: Dad refuses to wear formal clothes for my wedding

A father’s choice to avoid formal attire at his daughter’s wedding has stirred tension, as the bride perceives it as a clear sign of disrespect. This Miss Manners column dissects the nature of wedding etiquette and whether parental preferences should outweigh tradition and decorum.

Miss Manners: Friend ruined special dinner talking to a stranger

A special evening out went differently than expected when one guest initiated a political conversation with a stranger at a restaurant. The letter writer, seeking Miss Manners’ advice, felt slighted and wondered about the proper limits of dinner conversation.

Miss Manners: Should I have said something when I noticed a stranger’s zipper was down?

Observing a stranger’s unzipped pants can lead to an uncomfortable dilemma: are you helping or overstepping by saying something? This question spotlights a moment that causes many of us to hesitate, wondering if courtesy should override our fear of embarrassment.

Miss Manners: Why is everyone so obsessed with being thanked?

A letter to the Miss Manners column questions why people seem fixated on receiving written gratitude and even calls thank-you note expectations “brutal and draconian.” The complaint highlights a larger conversation about whether politeness has come at the cost of genuine personal choice.

Miss Manners: I’m 56. What do I call the woman I’m dating?

A 56-year-old reader recently turned to Miss Manners for help in naming his romantic partner. Unsure of the right term—be it “special person,” “girlfriend,” or otherwise—he sought clarity on how best to make a proper introduction.

Miss Manners: How do I get these demanding carolers to leave?

A recent Miss Manners column by Judith Martin addresses an unexpected holiday dilemma: what to do when carolers deliver not just cheer, but also a hint of threatening lyrics. In a playful response, Martin offers a polite yet clear approach to these determined singers.

Miss Manners: My wife’s excessive use of “very” is driving me crazy

A husband grows exasperated by his wife’s habitual use of “very,” prompting him to seek guidance in Miss Manners’ column. Etiquette expert Judith Martin weighs in on how minor language quirks can drive a wedge between spouses.