Miss Manners: Friend ruined special dinner talking to a stranger

A special evening out went differently than expected when one guest initiated a political conversation with a stranger at a restaurant. The letter writer, seeking Miss Manners’ advice, felt slighted and wondered about the proper limits of dinner conversation.

Miss Manners: Should I have said something when I noticed a stranger’s zipper was down?

Observing a stranger’s unzipped pants can lead to an uncomfortable dilemma: are you helping or overstepping by saying something? This question spotlights a moment that causes many of us to hesitate, wondering if courtesy should override our fear of embarrassment.

Miss Manners: Why is everyone so obsessed with being thanked?

A letter to the Miss Manners column questions why people seem fixated on receiving written gratitude and even calls thank-you note expectations “brutal and draconian.” The complaint highlights a larger conversation about whether politeness has come at the cost of genuine personal choice.

Miss Manners: I’m 56. What do I call the woman I’m dating?

A 56-year-old reader recently turned to Miss Manners for help in naming his romantic partner. Unsure of the right term—be it “special person,” “girlfriend,” or otherwise—he sought clarity on how best to make a proper introduction.

Miss Manners: How do I get these demanding carolers to leave?

A recent Miss Manners column by Judith Martin addresses an unexpected holiday dilemma: what to do when carolers deliver not just cheer, but also a hint of threatening lyrics. In a playful response, Martin offers a polite yet clear approach to these determined singers.

Miss Manners: My wife’s excessive use of “very” is driving me crazy

A husband grows exasperated by his wife’s habitual use of “very,” prompting him to seek guidance in Miss Manners’ column. Etiquette expert Judith Martin weighs in on how minor language quirks can drive a wedge between spouses.

Miss Manners: Bring your own everything – Fri, 05 Dec 2025 PST

In today’s eco-conscious era, a work-sponsored event is asking guests to bring their own silverware, plates, and beverage containers. By combining simple etiquette advice with practical green measures, this approach aims to reduce waste and make cleanup a breeze.

Miss Manners: Bring your own everything – Fri, 05 Dec 2025 PST

Miss Manners: Is it weird to ask guests to bring their own plates, cups, utensils?

Some hosts are asking guests to bring their own tableware, sparking debate about etiquette and hospitality. Judith Martin, better known as Miss Manners, weighs in on whether this new convenience contradicts the traditional responsibilities of a host.

Miss Manners: I’m terrified my guests will shatter my precious glassware

A nervous host seeks Miss Manners’ guidance on showcasing her prized vintage crystal at lively gatherings. Advice columnist Judith Martin offers thoughtful tips on maintaining both peace of mind and a gracious atmosphere.

Miss Manners: Why do parents ignore noisy children in stores?

One concerned shopper questions why parents often ignore unruly children who disturb fellow customers. The issue is whether it’s simply a question of kids being kids, or whether parents should take more responsibility to maintain a respectful environment.