When a newlywed couple instructed guests to bring “no gifts,” they never expected to be left with no cards or acknowledgments from some attendees. Their confusion highlights a broader conversation on modern wedding etiquette and the delicate balance between following instructions and offering thoughtful gestures.

Miss Manners addresses the familiar etiquette question of inviting unfamiliar spouses to social events. While tradition leans toward welcoming partners, her response offers clarity for those who feel uneasy about hosting strangers.