Funeral attire has long been governed by unwritten rules. Yet a friend’s remark about wearing black being “pretentious” if one was not close to the deceased has stirred deeper questions about how best to pay respects.
A new question posed to Miss Manners wonders if saying “bless you” after flatulence is simply an unusual personal habit or a longstanding Southern custom. Advice columnist Judith Martin addresses this lighthearted dilemma in her popular column, reflecting on how etiquette can evolve to embrace society’s quirks.
Observing a stranger’s unzipped pants can lead to an uncomfortable dilemma: are you helping or overstepping by saying something? This question spotlights a moment that causes many of us to hesitate, wondering if courtesy should override our fear of embarrassment.
A 56-year-old reader recently turned to Miss Manners for help in naming his romantic partner. Unsure of the right term—be it “special person,” “girlfriend,” or otherwise—he sought clarity on how best to make a proper introduction.
A reader feels singled out whenever they speed up their stride, triggering critical remarks from others. They turn to Dear Abby, describing how no one else walking the same route receives similar comments.
In an age where interactive experiences are commonplace, Miss Manners addresses concerns over disruptive theater audiences and offers guidance on graciously declining charity requests.
